Keeping your kids safe online can be a challenge. It’s natural for kids and teens to be curious about the world and a great way to satisfy their curiosity is by searching the internet for answers to their questions. So how can a parent limit access to the internet while still giving their kids an enjoyable internet experience?
First, there is no substitute to parental monitoring. Placing your computer in a central part of the house can discourage the type of online activity that can get a kid or teen in trouble. But let’s be honest… even if the computer is in a central location, you can’t monitor your kids 100% of the time.
Using Windows? Try their parental controls. Windows Vista and 7 have built in parental controls that can limit the amount of time your child spends online. For example, you can set it to where your kid can’t access the computer from 10 PM to 7 AM, so you as a parent can sleep knowing that your kid is off the net. Here are some links to help you setup parental controls…
Vista – http://windows.microsoft.com/en-US/windows-vista/Set-up-Parental-Controls
7 – http://windows.microsoft.com/en-us/windows7/Set-up-Parental-Controls
Look into parental control software. While the Windows Parental Control software is pretty decent, many parents want more robust control over their kid’s internet experience. Take a look at these software packages for a more fine level of control…
McAfee Total Protection 2010 – http://home.mcafee.com/store/total-protection
SafeEyes – http://www.internetsafety.com/safe-eyes-parental-control-software.php
Net Nanny – http://www.netnanny.com/products/netnanny
Cyber Patrol – http://www.cyberpatrol.com/cpparentalcontrols.asp
Our recommendation is McAfee Total Protection 2010. Not only does it include parental controls, it is a full featured Anti-Virus program as well.
Try OpenDNS – A free website filtering service for your home network. DNS is one of the main technologies that make the internet work. When you type in www.novacpu.com, DNS resolves this to an IP address. DNS is often described as phone book for websites. What if that phone book never gave you the IP Address? Your computer would not get to the website. This is the concept behind OpenDNS. OpenDNS filters DNS request from your computer and filters out the bad stuff. For example, if your curious teenage boy tries to get to an adult magazine’s website, OpenDNS will block that. It’s free for home use and you can even use it in the office. Check out www.opendns.com for more details.
A few things you may want to tell your kids…
- Not to install additional software. Many websites try to get their visitors to install software to ‘display the site correctly’, to ‘update your video player’, or (most common) to ‘protect you from a virus’. And it’s easy to fall for this too. Just remember, if it is not from a known company, you should steer clear.
- That your family computer is a great tool and not to abuse it. Your kids love the computer, no doubt. Teach them to respect it. It can cause time, money, and heartache when a computer goes down for any reason.
- To check their privacy settings in Facebook, MySpace, etc. Online predators commonly search these sites for things like “Females teens in ‘My Town’”. Make sure their profile is not public – only their approved friends should be able to see their pictures, status, etc.
- Not to meet up with somebody they met online. This happens more and more with the rise of social networking. Many teens will accept random friend requests because they simply want a lot of friends on their Facebook page. This can create a false sense of trust. Online predators can be very patient, developing a relationship over weeks, months, even years. If your teen posts “Going to the 7:00 show with my friends” on their Facebook page, the predator may see that and show up unannounced. Let them know that a friend of a friend may not be their friend.
Kyle Greenup
NovaCPU
www.novacpu.com
Email: kyle@novacpu.com
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